18-year-old abandons parents leaving them marooned on an island when they're late back to their Caribbean cruise: 'They would not head back to the ship when I said it was time to go'

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    "They would not head back to the ship when I said it was time to go."
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    AITA for abandoning my parents at an island in the Caribbean so I could get back to our cruise in time? Not the I graduated from high school back in December. As a gift my parents got me a cruise. It was also for my 18th birthday. It was also a family vacation. We usually stay at all inclusive resorts but I have always wanted to go on a cruise.
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    I told my parents it was different and that if we went on excursions we had to follow the schedule no matter what. Well it was a week-long cruise and they would not head back to the ship when I said it was time to go. They were busy shopping and bargaining with the locals. I finally said that I was heading back to the ship. My mom waved me off.
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    The missed the departure. By a lot. Like 45 minutes. They got ahold of me through WhatsApp. They wanted to know why I didn't get the boat to wait for them. I wanted to scream that they were not going to inconvenience 3,998 people because two could not understand what a schedule was.
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    They ended up having to fly to the next port from there and it was expensive. They are behind. I at me for leaving them I don't know what I was supposed to do. They literally told me that they knew what they were doing. I wish I had never asked for this. They are making me miserable because I left without them.
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    OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the as①ole: My parents thought a cruise ship would wait for them. I knew it wouldn't so I went back and made our departure time. My parents did not. I might be the as e for not staying back with my parents and costing them more in flights to the next port. Or for not dragging them back when it was time. I don't know what they expect from me.
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    OwlPal9182. NTA they seriously think the ship will delay for 45 minutes, yea no. The docks and ship have a schedule to keep. They are adults and need to be responsible for getting back on time. Which is something you have figured out in less than 6 months of being an adult. At least you don't have to go on any more vacations with them after this.
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    ParsimoniousSalad NTA. Your parents are acting entitled. Tell them you saved them the expense of a third ticket to the next port.
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    Aggravating-Pain9249 Your parents are in the wrong. I don't do cruises but I have some experience with them because I travel to a place were cruise ships are common. I also thought passengers were warned that the ship leaves no matter who is on board. You would never have been able to prevent the cruise chip from leaving. They have a schedule and they keep to it. The ship waits for no one. This is ALL on your parents.. They didn't respect the ship schedule. NTA
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    WesternBlueRanger NTA. Cruise ships have a schedule to keep, and there was no way they would wait for just two passengers without knowing where they were. They MIGHT wait if there's a whole bunch of passengers being delayed on an excursion that was organized by the cruise ship company, but that's iffy.
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    Silmariel I would 100% ask for help from an official looking employee, and make my parents stand there with their straight faces and have to listen to that employee explain it to them. NTA

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